A Reflective Practice Group for Helping Professionals

Pulls of Practice is a structured, facilitated reflective practice group designed to support helping professionals to better understand the emotional and interpersonal dynamics that emerge in their work.

Grounded in relational, trauma-informed practice and informed by ideas from Cognitive Analytic Therapy (CAT), the group offers a space to step back from the busyness of helping work and reflect on the pulls, patterns, and roles we can find ourselves moving into with clients, colleagues, teams, and systems.

Chloe (she/her) & Zac (he/him)

Notice the pulls. Recognise the patterns. Respond with greater awareness.

Strengthen reflective capacity in your work, your teams, and your relationship with yourself.

Why this Group?

Many helping professionals notice recurring patterns in their work - feeling over-responsible, avoiding conflict, striving to “get it right,” becoming the fixer, or feeling stuck in difficult interpersonal dynamics.

Pulls of Practice creates space to pause and make sense of these patterns rather than staying caught in automatic reactions.

Through guided reflection, collaborative discussion, and experiential exercises, participants are supported to:

  • Notice emotional and relational pulls that arise in practice

  • Recognise recurring patterns across clients, teams, and systems

  • Understand how self-talk, expectations, and internal processes shape professional responses

  • Identify familiar helper roles such as fixing, rescuing, pleasing, withdrawing, or over-functioning

  • Develop more flexible and intentional responses under pressure

  • Feel less alone through connection with other professionals

Rather than focusing on case-specific problem solving, this group focuses on process over content - exploring how we relate, what pulls emerge, and what patterns repeat across our work.

What to expect

  • 6 sessions (90 minutes)

  • Small, facilitated group

  • Online via Microsoft Teams

  • A balance of structure and open reflection

  • Guided activities, discussion, and optional between-session reflections

The group is organised around the 4Ps reflective framework:

Pause -Slow down and notice what is happening internally and relationally.

Pulls -Recognise the urges, emotional pressures, and roles you are being pulled into.

Patterns - Identify recurring relational cycles across clients, teams, and systems.

Professional Response -Create room for thoughtful, boundaried, and relationally-informed responses.

The group emphasises:

  • Psychological safety and choice in sharing

  • Curiosity and compassion over judgement

  • Process over problem-solving

  • Awareness of group dynamics and parallel process

  • Reflection on professional and (where relevant) personal experiences

Who it’s for

This group is suitable for:

  • Mental health clinicians

  • Allied health professionals

  • Youth workers and support staff

  • Helping professionals across a range of settings

It may be particularly helpful if you:

  • Notice recurring interpersonal dynamics in your work

  • Experience pressure, self-criticism, or relational strain in professional roles

  • Find yourself fixing, rescuing, over-functioning, withdrawing, or over-carrying responsibility

  • Want to strengthen reflective practice and relational awareness

  • Are open to a facilitated group process

No prior knowledge of any specific therapy model is required.

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